【本当は苦しかった】暴言のあと、不登校の娘が話したこと。

Today, I'm going to talk about a time when I completely misunderstood the meaning of the word "support." I tried not to make my daughter angry. I tried not to make her unstable. I tried not to upset her. I was constantly watching her mood. But, honestly, nothing changed. Then one day, after she had said something hurtful, my daughter said: "I know I shouldn't say it. But I just can't help it." Those words made me realize for the first time. My daughter wasn't angry; she had been suffering all along. As I, as a parent, began to change, the atmosphere between us also began to change little by little. I hope this reaches anyone who was struggling with the same thing back then. Free background music from DOVA-SYNDROME (https://dova-s.jp) #SchoolRefusal #ParentsOfSchoolRefusalChildren #Parenting #MothersFeelings #ElementarySchoolStudents #ParentChildRelationship #SchoolReluctance #PersonalExperience #Gume-san