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Quick contact with the law firm: 📞 695 560 425 🌐 https://kancelaria-klisz.pl/ 📩[email protected] More information about divorce and division of property - ℹ️ https://rozwod-i-podzial-majatku.pl/ Divorce is one of the most stressful events in the lives of both adults and children. Although parents often declare their desire to protect their children from the negative effects of separation, in practice this can be difficult to achieve. As an attorney with over a decade of experience in divorce cases, I observe daily how parents' unconscious mistakes affect children's psychology, causing them unnecessary trauma. 📌 Living Together During Divorce – Pitfalls and Consequences It often happens that spouses, despite the commencement of divorce proceedings, continue to live together. This seems practical from a financial or organizational perspective, but it carries many psychological risks for the child. Imagine a situation where parents live under the same roof, but one of them pretends the other doesn't exist. Communication takes place through the child, who becomes the messenger between adults. "Tell Dad to take out the trash," "Ask Mom when she's home from work." Such behavior burdens the child with responsibility for the parental relationship, which causes enormous stress for them. 📌 Inappropriate Relationships with Children During Divorce Criticizing the other parent in the child's presence is a classic example of toxic behavior. This is a way for the parent to seek support and validation, but it is extremely burdensome for the child. They need a positive image of both parents for proper emotional development. Also, avoid asking your child about the other parent's personal life, especially when it comes to new relationships. Turning your child into a spy creates a loyalty conflict and forces them to take sides. Don't burden your child with your emotional problems. Crying on your son or daughter's shoulder and expecting support is a role reversal that can lead to so-called parentification. A child is not responsible for meeting their parent's emotional needs and should not assume their responsibilities. 📌 Obstructing Contact with the Other Parent Divorce often leads to conflicts regarding contact with the child. Sometimes, one parent, usually the one with whom the child lives, hinders or prevents contact with the other parent. This is done for various reasons: revenge, self-righteousness, or fear for the child's safety. Such behavior is harmful not only to the other parent but, above all, to the child. Cutting them off from contact with their mother or father can lead to serious emotional disturbances and affect their future relationships. Toxic Behavior in Fathers Fathers also make mistakes. Missing appointments, not picking up the child, or being late without warning can make the child feel disappointed and less important. Another problem is a lack of involvement in the child's care during contact. Instead of spending active time with the child, the father entrusts the child to the grandparents or pursues his own interests. The child perceives this as a lack of interest and love. Competition between parents A child needs stability and clear rules. A lack of parenting cohesion between parents can lead to behavioral problems and difficulties at school. 📌 Psychological support Divorce is not only a legal issue, but above all, an emotional one. Therefore, it's worth seeking professional help. We recommend Weronika Białoskórka, a child psychologist with whom we collaborate. Her professionalism and experience will help you and your child through this difficult period -   / weronika_bialoskorka_psycholog   00:00 Introduction 00:53 Living together during divorce proceedings 02:23 What not to do with children during divorce 04:34 Contact with children and toxic mothers' behavior 07:24 Are you a real man? Don't do this. 09:33 Toxic behavior involving both parents Do you have any questions? | Call me 📞 695 560 425 Email me 💬 [email protected] CONTACT: https://rozwod-i-podzial-majatku.pl/ Divorce Law Firm - Divorce and Division of Property Wrocław Address: ul. Kazimierza Wielkiego 1, 50-077 Wrocław Phone: 697 945 000 Firm Office Locations: POZNAŃ - ul. Dominikańska 7/4 KATOWICE - ul. Sobieskiego 27/30 GDAŃSK - ul. Kartuska 31c/1 WARSAW - ul. Zamieniecka 62/64 BYDGOSZCZ - ul. Gdańska 7 PLEASE REMEMBER THAT THIS VIDEO EXPRESSES ONLY THE VIEWS OF ITS AUTHOR. IT SHOULD NOT BE CONSIDERED LEGAL ADVICE AND IS NOT A SUBSTITUTE FOR A VISIT TO A LAWYER OR LEGAL COUNSEL.