você não precisa merecer ser amada #27

Are you constantly trying to prove to the other person that you deserve to be loved? Doing too much, being too helpful, trying to be perfect to ensure that love doesn't go away? Then this episode is for you! In this episode, I'll talk about what happens when we confuse the work of loving with the work of deserving to be loved, and why nothing you do will make someone love you. We'll go through Aristotle, Plato, bell hooks, Ana Suy, Alain de Botton, Erich Fromm, and Rilke to understand: what is love? What sustains a relationship? And isn't the real work not about winning love, but learning to receive what already exists? Subscribe to my Substack so you don't miss any newsletters (there I preview the topic we'll be discussing here on the podcast): https://substack.com/@obraaberta?r=6q... If you want to share any frustrations with past goals or any other questions, just send me an email at: [email protected] Who knows, maybe we can build something together based on that? To follow "Obra Aberta" on Instagram and TikTok: @obraaberta.co To follow me on Instagram: @valentinabulc Kisses and see you next Wednesday! Bibliography: Book “Nicomachean Ethics” by Aristotle Book “The Symposium” by Plato Book “Everything About Love: New Perspectives” by bell hooks Book “The Course of Love” by Alain de Botton Book “We Aim for Love and Hit Loneliness” by Ana Suy Book “The Art of Loving” by Erich Fromm Book “Letters to a Young Poet” by Rilke Concept of “Good Enough Mother” by D.W. Smith Winnicott https://www.theschooloflife.com/sao-p... https://livroecafe.com/20-frases-do-l...   / 20774019.ana_suy   https://www.viniciusdemoraes.com.br/b... #deservelove #useful #beloved #podcast #openwork