Quer que dê certo? Não conte seus planos para os outros | Fatos científicos

Did you know that people who don't share their plans and goals with others are 37% more likely to achieve them than those who do? One of the worst mistakes I've made dozens of times in my life, and I believe you may be making the same mistake, was telling people about my plans and goals. Most of the times I did this, the plan I had made, which had everything going for it, for some reason or other unknown to me, ended up backfiring. It seems that when we decide to make an important decision like joining a gym, learning to play the guitar or a new language, creating a YouTube channel, or even starting our own business, the most logical thing to do at first is to tell friends or family for support, approval, or even emotional security. In fact, I often did this thinking that simply sharing my plans and ideas with others would be the same as making a public commitment, which would force me to follow through and consequently achieve my goals. Of course, this was the worst thing I ever did, just as it's the worst thing you can do. And why shouldn't we do this? Simple, because even a situation where everything seems perfectly planned and calculated can go wrong. And this happens either due to a force majeure, or even because the person themselves gives up along the way. The funny thing is that this fact has long attracted the attention of researchers. In 1933, some psychologists discovered that the more people know about our dreams and projects, the less likely they are to come true. One explanation for this is that when we share our goals with others, our subconscious begins to believe they are real. Since the goal has already been "achieved" subconsciously, motivation fades, and as a result, we don't actually achieve it. Psychologist and New York University professor Peter Gollwitzer studied this topic in 1982. He conducted a study with 63 people, and according to the results, those who didn't share their goals with others were more likely to achieve them than those who shared their dreams with others, seeking acceptance and support. According to Professor Gollwitzer, when we share our goals and dreams, we experience a premature feeling of completion, that is, a strange feeling that something is finished. And this happens for the same reason we explained before: our brain simply understands that the goal has already been achieved, having left our minds and become real because we've shared it with others. It sounds confusing, but analyze it and you'll see that it actually makes sense. This can actually diminish your drive and motivation to achieve that goal. In another study, a group of people were instructed to write down their weekly goals on a piece of paper and hand them over to researchers. Some of these people were told that their goals would be analyzed, while the others in the group were not. Those who knew their goals would be analyzed put less effort into achieving them than those who didn't. This shows that knowing other people about our goals can't always serve as motivation. In addition to the various studies on the subject, many people also believe they shouldn't share their plans and goals with others because they believe that not everyone around us truly wants us to succeed. So the solution to this is to talk, and talk a lot. But talk to yourself! And along with that, work and pursue it until your goal becomes a reality. After that, you can tell your friends and family. So, focus on that famous phrase "WORK HARD IN SILENCE AND LET SUCCESS MAKE THE NOISE." And if someone asks about your dreams, plans, and goals, try to change the subject or answer something else, but don't talk about your goals! Do you usually talk about your goals with others, or do you prefer to keep them to yourself? Let me know in the comments! And if you liked the video, give it a like and subscribe to the channel! Thanks for watching, and see you in the next video! ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Follow us on social media: Instagram:   / lifepins   Facebook:   / lifepins   Twitter:   / lifepins   ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------