Growing Up With Lori Vallow - Cousin Megan Conner | Ep 1760

Today accused murderer Lori Vallow’s cousin, Megan Conner, shares what it was like to grow up as a cousin to the Cox family. She also discusses the Mormon ties to the Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell murders, and discusses her own Mormon faith transition. 00:00:00 Beginning 00:01:20 Lori was raised Mormon and became a prepper 00:02:16 Megan Conner is Lori Vallow’s cousin 00:02:44 Content warning, death of children and adults 00:05:00 Disclaimers 00:08:20 Mindy Caldwell Disclaimer 00:10:00 LDS prepper ideas and conferences, etc. 00:12:22 How does a Mormon mom kill so many people? 00:12:45 The beginning of Megan’s Mormon story, 00:15:20 Stories of Noni, Lori’s grandmother 00:18:13 Cliff and Janis grew up in a faithful home, strict, not model Mormon 00:20:19 Summary of the family culture 00:29:00 Themes in Noni’s family, carried into Megan’s family 00:31:30 Experiences with Lori’s family growing up 00:33:00 Lori’s dad took the girl cousins to see Rambo 00:34:00 About Lori’s family and her parents 00:43:00 Troubling swimsuit “photo shoot” as a teen girl with Lori’s dad 00:45:50 Barry’s relationship with church, he was the self proclaimed patriarch of his siblings. 00:49:00 Janis’ lifestyle, smart yet she’d wear high heels, makeup 00:51:10 Double life of Lori’s parents 00:52:20 Stake Conference thinking: “How many of you are secretly abusing people?” 00:58:30 Impressions of Lori as a teen 01:02:15 Alex 01:06:15 Janis probably had an eating disorder 01:08:40 How the Cox’s were perceived by their neighbors and others? 01:10:00 Alex’s inability to form attachments 01:12:20 Story of Lori and Megan on a double date, killing a cat 01:15:07 Lori’s antisocial personality disorder, no empathy 01:17:14 Girls camp story - The Legend of Liahona 01:24:00 Bishop not endorsing her BYU application 01:26:20 She went to the University of Connecticut 01:34:30 Lori marries her high school boyfriend, Nelson a nonmember. 01:37:27 Adam was a DJ in a top radio station, Lori was working at a tanning salon. 01:38:40 Story of Megan and Lori going on a date with the same guy 01:44:02 Megan married a non-Mormon 01:45:15 Megan realizes she’s bisexual, 01:47:50 Megan’s engagement to another man, her family’s reaction, she gets pregnant 01:55:30 Megan is faced with marrying this man or putting her baby up for adoption. 02:00:20 Lori was my bridesmaid and held my daughter 02:02:40 Megan’s daughter and Lori’s son, Colby are the same age 02:03:45 Megan goes back to church, husband gets baptized 02:13:45 Miscarriage and eternal families 02:26:18 Ugly divorce with Lori and Joe Ryan 02:30:50 The story of Stacey’s death 02:47:40 Joe Ryan’s death 02:52:50 Lori is recorded at a fireside, saying, “I either need to commit murder or go to the temple.” 03:11:20 Timing and order of the deaths 03:13:08 Chad has a list of everyone in the family of whether they’re light or dark. 03:21:40 This isn’t a fairytale, this is real life, 03:28:28 Suspicions on the timeline with Alex’s death 03:40:34 The silence from Salt Lake City is deafening. 03:45:50 Story of Sandra Tanner and the historian 04:02:30 Comparing investing with learning anti-Mormon material 04:07:00 The Doctrine determines the culture 04:10:20 Is the Church complicit in the deaths that occurred? 04:10:40 Lori has not been excommunicated. 04:17:00 Where the church can start, a letter that speaks against the Church of the First Born. 04:20:55 The truth is the only thing that really matters, and the truth is harmful. ___________________ At Mormon Stories we explore, celebrate, and challenge Mormon culture through in-depth stories told by members and former members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints as well as scholars, authors, LDS apologists, and other professionals. Our overall mission is to: 1. Facilitate informed consent amongst LDS Church members, investigators, and non-members regarding Mormon history, doctrine, and theology 2. Support Mormons (and members of other high-demand religions) who are experiencing a religious faith crisis 3. Promote healing, growth and community for those who choose to leave the LDS Church or other high demand religions 🤝Help us continue to deliver quality content by becoming a donor today One-time or recurring donations: https://donorbox.org/mormon-stories?d... Patreon:   / mormonstories   Our Platforms: 🌐Mormon Stories Blog: https://www.mormonstories.org/episodes 🎙️Patreon:   / mormonstories   ✳️Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4sDzk7d... 🍎Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... 🖼️Instagram:   / mormstories   📱TikTok:   / mormonstoriespodcast   🎮Discord:   / discord   Contact us: 📧 [email protected] 📬PO Box 171085, Salt Lake City, UT 84117