The Jew Wants Me to WIPE HIS BUM!

Following up on yesterday’s update about the Jewish American expat living in my building's basement here in Da Lat, things have taken a incredibly heavy and difficult turn. As I mentioned, he is severely ill, disabled, and potentially facing the end of his life, while consistently refusing to go to the hospital or make sound decisions for his health. ​Yesterday, I reached out to see if he needed any basic supplies or food. He texted me back asking if I could come down and hold his hand while he goes to the toilet. Given his severe illness and his size, I know exactly what comes next once he is on that toilet—he is going to need someone to physically help clean and wipe him. In this video, I’m being completely transparent about where I draw the line. While care and medical assistance are incredibly cheap to hire here in Vietnam, he is refusing professional help. I am absolutely willing to show up as a neighbor, buy his groceries, and get him what he needs, but I am not going to become a full-time, untrained medical caregiver, and I am not getting involved in that level of personal hygiene. It’s a tough situation, but sometimes you have to protect your own boundaries when someone refuses to help themselves. ​ 🔔 Subscribe for more honest expat life updates and reality checks! ​#ExpatLife #VietnamExpat #DaLat #MovingToVietnam #LandlordNightmare #TravelReality Support the Channel & Connect ☕ ​If you find value in these videos, consider supporting my work so I can keep bringing you authentic content from the ground: ​Patreon: patreon.com/Tom_Greatorex ​Buy Me a Coffee: buymeacoffee.com/tomgreatorex paypal.me/ThomasPeterGreatorex ​SOL Wallet: 7MrDguLeVjgiTkpHXh6e8u7bNr418mgs5Y9uadpo7KpF ​Check out my second channel: @tom_greatorex Focusing on self-development, shadow work, spirituality, philosophy, and psychology. ​Contact [email protected] ​da lat expat life, living in vietnam, expat boundaries, setting boundaries, raw expat reality, dark side of moving abroad, elderly expats, sickness abroad, neighborly boundaries, life in da lat, vietnam expat community, healthcare in vietnam, knowing your limits, personal boundaries, honest storytelling, difficult situations, protecting your peace, real talk vietnam, expat struggles, caregiver boundaries