[회피형의 사고방식 2편] 회피형은 절대 이걸 인정하지 않습니다

Hello. This is Sadamsadam from Boharu. Following up on the last video, today I will discuss the fundamental mindset and characteristics of the avoidant type, based on the book *The Reason They Date Like That*. Avoidant people are not bad people. However, in the process of forming intimate attachment relationships, they possess a mindset that is very different from other attachment types. In this video, I will introduce 6 to 10 characteristics of the avoidant type. ✔ The reason they overemphasize independence and take their partner's worries lightly ✔ The reason they have a low ability to read their partner's emotions ✔ The reason they constantly wander in search of perfect love and an ideal partner ✔ The reason they find deep intimacy burdensome and avoid relationships ✔ A mindset that blames all problems on external factors It is said that avoidant types tend to romanticize the past or dream of an ideal love in the future that has not yet arrived, rather than focusing on the current relationship. Consequently, they often underestimate the affection and effort of the person currently by their side. If you are dating an avoidant person, or if you are wondering if you yourself have avoidant tendencies, I hope this video helps you understand relationships better. In the next video, I plan to introduce 8 customized dating coaching tips for avoidant types. We will discuss whether avoidant types truly cannot change and how they can build healthier relationships. If you found this video helpful, please subscribe and like. Thank you.