How to Stop Being Controlling in Your Marriage

Learn more about becoming a coach: 👉https://lauradoyle.co/3PwzZeh Work with my relationship coaches and me: 👉https://lauradoyle.co/41wK0L3 What does it feel like for a husband when control disappears from a marriage? You heard Stella's side of the story a few weeks ago (   • What to Do if Your Husband is Looking at O...  ). Today’s episode offers a rare glimpse from the other side—her husband's. Elijah opens up about the early years of their marriage, when broken trust, shame, and constant attempts to help him overcome his addiction left them stuck in painful cycles. He shares what it felt like to live under control and how that slowly eroded their connection. Everything began to change when Stella started practicing the Six Intimacy Skills. As she began doing things differently, Elijah experienced renewed confidence, a desire to lead, and a longing to reconnect with his wife. In this episode, Elijah shares what it was like on the other side of Stella’s transformation and how her changes helped turn a struggling marriage into one marked by friendship, attraction, and hope. ▬ Contents of this video ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ 00:00 Introduction to Elijah's Journey 05:05 The Early Relationship and Challenges 09:53 Struggles with Pornography and Trust Issues 15:06 Seeking Help and the Cycle of Shame 19:49 The Shift: Embracing the Skills 23:59 NEWCHAPTER 24:48 Rebuilding Trust and Connection 30:02 Finding New Ways to Connect 34:49 The Ongoing Journey of Healing 39:41 Evolving Relationship Dynamics 42:32 Navigating Emotional Growth 45:07 Relinquishing Control and Embracing Leadership 48:30 Pursuing Dreams Together 51:21 Impact on Children and Family Dynamics 55:56 Understanding the Husband's Perspective 01:00:50 Healing Through Shared Struggles 01:03:32 Attraction and Emotional Connection 01:05:09 Current State of the Marriage 01:07:02 Redefining Purity and Integrity 01:12:19 The Courage to Share