“I Gotta Put Me First:” Self Love, Sex and Unsubscribing from the Male Gaze

In today’s episode, the sisters weigh in on last week’s episode with none other than Adella Afadi. From seeking freedom from the male gaze to repairing our relationship with self, sex and the male gaze - tune in to reflective and candid conversation on how, and why, women should strive for the same.  Timestamps:  00:00 Welcome to the conversation sis  02:08 Housekeeping announcements  05:57 Ding ding ding dilemma: Maid of honour DRAMA  24:16 The dangers facing women under the male gaze 42:10 Divesting from the male gaze and putting you first 58:49 Sexual liberation and education ☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters 💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] ---- 💌 ABOUT US: At heart, To My Sisters is the fast-growing digital sisterhood founded to help women across the world leverage friendship and community to manifest their greatest ambitions. To My Sisters is unique in its kind by offering women the space for holistic wellness, growth and healing. From dealing with past trauma to setting up your next business venture, TMS is the one-stop destination for women looking to break the boundaries of what is seen as possible in our time. 💌 JOIN US ON SOCIAL MEDIA! Instagram:   / tomysisterhood   Twitter:   / tomysisterhood   💌 SAY HI TO THE HOSTS!   / cdboateng     / reneekapuku     / cdboateng     / reneekapuku   🎧 LISTEN ON SPOTIFY AND APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/2XZh8CV https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast... #Friendships #Relationships #Dating #FemaleFriendship #Womenspodcasts #FemalePodcast #Sisterhood #HealthyRelationships #ToMySisters #ToMySisterhood #Therapy #Mindset #Faith #FemaleFriendships #Spirituality #PersonalDevelopment #communitybuilding #brotherhood #menandwomen

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