3 Single Men Answer Why Guys May Not Be Pursuing (Pt. 2)

ChPart 2 is here—and the conversation gets even more real. 🎙️ We’re back with the Single Guys Panel on Dear Future Husband—and this time, we’re answering YOUR voice memo questions… no edits, no filters. We get into the questions everyone’s thinking but few are asking:Do men actually like Botox and “high maintenance” women? Why aren’t men approaching women anymore? And what are the absolute WORST dates they’ve ever been on? Nothing is sugarcoated. The guys react in real time, share personal experiences, and give brutally honest perspectives on modern dating, attraction, and what’s really going on behind the scenes. If you want to understand how men think in today’s dating world… this is the episode you don’t skip. 👀 ______ DATING BOOKS: How can YOU begin preparing for your future marriage too? Order the "Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal" and "Future Husband, Present Prayers" book today and start praying intentionally for the spouse you are believing for—and becoming. Order "Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal" here: https://amzn.to/406uPaY Order "Future Husband, Present Prayers" here: https://amzn.to/4b5vlek ______ CHAPTER MARKERS: 0:00 "Do men actually like the Botox & filler look?" — we're asking 1:03 Welcome back + what the girls sent in 👀 1:47 Molly wants to know: are men attracted to heavy cosmetic work? 8:47 What men find beautiful that you probably don't see in yourself 11:49 Where are the godly men hiding? Molly's follow-up question 20:36 Fear of rejection is real — here's what men say about breaking the ice 23:25 Ella asks: how do I show interest without becoming the pursuer? 29:10 "Pointed, not performative" — the difference men actually notice 33:24 Women who initiated in the Bible (and what happened) 38:03 Michelle at 40 asks: why have men stopped pursuing altogether? 43:47 What dating failures taught these men about what actually matters 47:57 What made Arden the one — clarity, vision & how he talked about people 50:17 Tracy's first kiss was on a Tyler Perry set (yes, really) 52:22 Awkward dating stories that will make you feel better about yours 54:58 "If your mom could nitpick your dating life..." 👀 55:27 Chase called his mom live & it got deep fast 1:00:14 Why setups & matchmaking might actually be the move 1:01:09 Use the comments — Tell us what stuck out to you the most! ______ RESOURCES: To help you grow as a follower of Christ, we invite you to download our everyday discipleship app, MessengerX. You can get it here: https://messengerx.com/ To explore the other podcast shows that are part of the Messenger Network, click here: https://messengerinternational.org/po... Watch Part 1 of the Singles Men Panel here:    • Peek Into How a Single Man Thinks in Dating   (Introduction song: Appassionato by Roie Shpigler, Nono)